Personal
Devaluation
Your concern is downgraded until it doesn't qualify as a topic.
how it sounds
“You're being dramatic, it's really not a big deal.”
What they’re really doing
Disqualifying the complaint rather than answering it. If your reaction is the problem, their behaviour never is.
The reply that answers it
It matters to me. I'd like to talk about [specific thing] — can we?
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