Personal
Guilt induction
Your boundary is reframed as damage you're doing to them.
how it sounds
“After everything I've done, this is where you draw the line?”
What they’re really doing
Attaching a moral cost to a normal limit, so keeping it feels like an act of cruelty.
The reply that answers it
I hear that this is hard. My answer on [thing] is still no — and it isn't about [what they've done].
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